skeletorskeeper said:

what if you just want to be friends with a ex but he doesn't understand your morals of not talking alone or hanging out alone??


Ah I hate saying this, but you shouldn’t be hanging out with him then.  It doesn’t sound like he’s grown up enough to understand the breakdown of the whole thing so I’d just leave it alone.

Bring it to Jesus!  Ask him :)

—Rachael :)


Anonymous said:

I got saved when I was 5, went to a Christian school, and always struggled with depression. I left that school for 7th grade, which is generally the worst year for most kids, and fell away from God and into the depression. It's 7 years later and I'm trying to get back but I feel like there's a chasm between me and God and I'm too weak to cross it. Any verses/books/anything you could suggest?


Well first thing I’d like to say is you are not alone!  

Not only is God on your side, and SO happy that you’re coming back (Luke 15:10), but many many people go through the same period during high school and whatnot.  There’s always going to be people who understand you, and you’ve got Jesus!

Everyone is too weak to cross that gap alone.  Everyone.  We all need the Holy Spirit carrying us.  Don’t be discouraged, Jesus bridges that chasm!  It takes time lovie :)

The best thing for you right now are books that just talk about basic Christianity.  Mere Christianity by CS Lewis is a great place to start.  So is Explicit Gospel by Matt Chandler.  Definitely read those two, and if you want more then you should check out any of Mark Driscoll’s books and Living With Questions by Dale Fincher :)

welcome home <3

—Rachael :)


A mistake! Oh no! I’ve made a mistake!

Okay sorry guys I’m VERY sorry that as a normal, human girl I’ve made a small mistake.

When someone asked me the question “will you go to heaven if you commit suicide” I misread the question and thought I was asked “will you go to hell if you commit suicide”.  My answer was “nope” where I meant “yes”, because I meant no you will not go to hell if you commit suicide, but yes you will go to heaven if you commit suicide.  But if you continued on and read my response, you would have seen that i did mean you WILL go to heaven if you commit suicide.  If I’ve confused you, just go back to the post, since I corrected myself.  It will make sense then :)

I am SO sorry for any distress I’ve caused you guys.  I really am so sorry, I can’t even begin to explain.  I hope that you guys stuck it through the post long enough to realize what I really meant. I am not trying to judge who makes it to heaven and who doesn’t, I was merely presenting what the Bible said about it and I made a little mistake.  

I would like to remind you, though, of the verse 1 John 4:20 “If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannotlove God whom he has not seen.”

I did make a mistake, but lashing out in anger and harsh words is totally unbiblical.  Please ladies, I urge you to find patience and love through Jesus next time you want to get mad at someone on tumblr!  Please know that I’m still learning and I will make mistakes.  If you disagree with me on anything, message me privately and talk with me lovingly.  I really respect your opinion, and my theology has been shifted because of great messages I’ve gotten from this page.  I’ll be open to learning and correcting myself if you’re open to being patient and kind with me.

Check out Matthew 18:15-17 :)

“If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.

ONCE AGAIN I apologize for any misunderstandings.  If there are any problems, shoot us a message, but please please, be nice.  I do have emotions and I am not bulletproof.  Name calling and accusations are immature, unbiblical, unnecessary, and rude.

Thanks everyone, have a wonderful day!

—Rachael :)

evenshteven:

The Bible is not a package of bandaids. You cannot apply it by picking and choosing which scripture goes where in your life.

The Bible is Extreme Makeover: Heart, Soul, Body and Mind Edition. It is the living and active Word of God that has no room for the lukewarm. It is sharper than any two-edged sword. It pierces to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.

The Bible is not a package of bandaids.

(Source: partakerofgrace)

Anonymous said:

thank u so much for answering questions about sexual temptation. ive felt really ashamed and im glad im not the only one who struggles with it.


Yeah there’s something immensely comforting knowing that you’re not alone in these embarrassing struggles, isn’t there?

—Rachael :)


Anonymous said:

What books can you recommend that help build faith and trust??


Hm I’d firstly recommend the Bible ;D

No seriously, read Romans, Hebrews, James, and the four gospels.  You’ll be surprised how much the Bible helps (especially these seven books) when you’re lacking faith.  It doesn’t seem like it would because.. well you’re lacking faith in that moment.. but trust me on this one!

Other books I’d recommend… uh, well, there’s Crazy Love by Francis Chan and the Explicit Gospel by Matt Chandler.  They’re both pretty much just the gospel, but there’s something about hearing the gospel the way that those two men write it that really builds my faith.  I’m sitting there the whole time going, “Yes!  Yes!  Okay God you’ve saved me, I’ll give you my everything!”

Mere Christianity is kind of a book about being a Christian, and most of being a Christian is having faith and trusting Jesus, so Mere Christianity will be really awesome for you as well!

I recommend these books for the same reason I recommend reading the Bible.  It’s really important to solidify the foundations of the gospel and the salvation process.  A lot of faith comes from having a serious and strong foundation, so to keep building on that foundation will only make your trust grow stronger and stronger!

Remember to pray ;)

I think trust and faith are part of being saved, and reading a book that extends and walks you through the salvation process just re-solidifies those aspects of your Christian walk.  If anyone else has any suggestions, please please tell me!  Thanks guys!

Good question, by the way, I like that you want to read books that help you build your faith!

—Rachael :)


Anonymous said:

I've struggled for 10 years with sexual temptation and such, and it's something I've always hated, because I really want to change, I don't want to be this but every time I messed up again I felt far away from God. Recently I've done better though, and I've really felt close to God, but the other day I gave in again and since then I feel like when I pray, nobody is listening. I wanted to know, do you believe it's possible to fall too many times? I'm so afraid He wont come back this time.


oh my love it is IMPOSSIBLE to fall too many times.  He will pick you up every single time.  He has not left you.  He will never leave you.

Seriously, your God will NEVER leave you.  Jesus didn’t die for some of your sins, he died for all of them.  He has redeemed you and you are redeemed.  You have a new identity and you’re washed in the blood of Jesus that was spilled for you out of his love.  You are eternally loved by the God of the universe, nothing can change that.  Here are some verses to back me up :)  Keep these handy, I have them saved as a file on my computer, and open it when you feel hopeless!  


  • Psalm 37:23-28
     - If the LORD delights in a man’s way, he makes his steps firm; though he stumble, he will not fall, for the LORD upholds him with his hand. For the LORD loves the just and will not forsake his faithful ones. They will be protected forever. 
  • John 6:37-40 - “All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away. For I have come down from heaven not to do my will but to do the will of him who sent me. And this is the will of him who sent me, that I shall lose none of all that he has given me, but raise them up at the last day. For my Father’s will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day.” 
  • John 10:26-30 - “You do not believe because you are not my sheep. My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one can snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand. I and the Father are one.” 
  • John 14:16 - And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever. 
  • Romans 6:3-58 - Or don’t you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life. If we have been united with him like this in his death, we will certainly also be united with him in his resurrection…Now if we died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him. 
  • Romans 8:28-39 - And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified. What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all-how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. Who is he that condemns? Christ Jesus, who died-more than that, who was raised to life-is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: “For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. 
  • Romans 14:4 - Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To his own master he stands or falls. And he will stand, for the Lord is able to make him stand. 
  • I Corinthians 1:7-9 - Therefore you do not lack any spiritual gift as you eagerly wait for our Lord Jesus Christ to be revealed. He will keep you strong to the end, so that you will be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ. God, who has called you into fellowship with his Son Jesus Christ our Lord, is faithful. 
  • Ephesians 1:13-14 - And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession-to the praise of his glory. 
  • Ephesians 2:8-9 - For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith-and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God-not by works, so that no one can boast. 
  • Ephesians 4:30 - And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 
  • Hebrews 8:12 - “For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.” 
  • Hebrews 13:5-6 - Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” So we say with confidence, “The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?” 
  • 1 Peter 1:3-5 - Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, and into an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade-kept in heaven for you, who through faith are shielded by God’s power until the coming of the salvation that is ready to be revealed in the last time. 
  • 1 John 5:13 - I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life. 
  • 1 John 5:18 - We know that anyone born of God does not continue to sin; the one who was born of God keeps him safe, and the evil one cannot harm him. 
  • Jude 24-25 - To him who is able to keep you from falling and to present you before his glorious presence without fault and with great joy-to the only God our Savior be glory, majesty, power and authority, through Jesus Christ our Lord, before all ages, now and forevermore! Amen. 
  • John 3:14-16 - “Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the desert, so the Son of Man must be lifted up, that everyone who believes in him may have eternal life. For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” 
  • John 5:24 - “I tell you the truth, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be condemned; he has crossed over from death to life.” 
  • Romans 6:23 - For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. 
  • Romans 8:1 - Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. 
  • Romans 11:29 - …for God’s gifts and his call are irrevocable. 
  • Philippians 1:6 - …being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. 
  • 2 Timothy 1:9 - …who has saved us and called us to a holy life-not because of anything we have done but because of his own purpose and grace. This grace was given us in Christ Jesus before the beginning of time. 
  • Hebrews 7:24-25 - …but because Jesus lives forever, he has a permanent priesthood. Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them. 
  • Hebrews 9:11-12 - When Christ came as high priest of the good things that are already here, he went through the greater and more perfect tabernacle that is not man-made, that is to say, not a part of this creation. He did not enter by means of the blood of goats and calves; but he entered the Most Holy Place once for all by his own blood, having obtained eternal redemption.

To think that your sins are greater than the power of Jesus’s beautiful, redeeming, eternal sacrifice is a ridiculous thought.  You cannot entertain those kinds of ideas.  Here’s my prayer to all you girls tonight who are struggling with the idea that God has not forgiven all your sins!

Jesus I come to you as a daughter of the King and I thank you for your redeeming power.  Thank you that you are powerful and glorious and holy but you still chose us and desire us.  I pray that we never ever forget that your sacrifice for us was sufficient and eternal.  Thank you that you look at our hearts and not our actions.  Thank you that because we are loved and redeemed by you, it doesn’t matter how many times we fall, you will pick us back up.  Remind us right now, Jesus speak to us about your endless love.  Show us how you see us, redefine the way that we see the gospel.  Forgive us for attempting to belittle your saving powers and bring us back into your graceful light.  Thank you that you reign over everything, over all the earth and everything on it, but you chose fellowship with us.  We are undeserving, but we’ve been given grace anyway.  Continue to bless our faith, and show us the power of your gospel anew every. single. day.  Jesus, your power is unending, and if you chose to save us, then you will save us forever and ever.  Amen.

He is listening.  Christianity isn’t about feelings, just because you feel like he’s not listening doesn’t mean that he isn’t.  He sees your heart and he sees that you desire purity and that’s all he needs to see.  You want to be done with your sin and you’re trying your best and that’s what Jesus wants to see.  Remember?  God looks at the heart.  (1 Samuel 16:7)

Keep going lovie!

—Rachael :)


Someday when I have a home of my own,

jesusandlattes:

breanna-lynn:

I want it to be more than that. I want it to be home to many people. I want it to be a place where people know they can come and knock on our front door, no matter what time it is- if they need us we’ll open up the door. I want it to be a place that if they’re hungry they know they can just open…

jesusandlattes:

classyliving:

Like, because of Jesus, the Father is constantly delighting in me!

WHAT

SERIOUSLY THOUGH

Anonymous said:

How can i stop doubting?! Im tired of this!!!! Is doubting the same as double mindedness? Im willing to live my life for God but this stupid doubt! How can i stop doubting and start believing/trusting more? I dont wanna be a hypocrite to my unchristian friends when i struggle with doubt. Im seriously wanting to change and trust but honestly its not easy! I wish it was. How can i also not doubt after i pray?


 1.  How can I stop doubting?  The Bible.  I find that I often doubt Jesus and the Holy Spirit within me but the Bible is a solid place for me to find peace from my doubt.  Read anywhere.  Proverbs, Isaiah, Luke…  Another thing that will help is writing (yes, handwriting!) your emotions and doubts on paper.  My doubt tends to scramble my thoughts, I question what’s real and what’s lies.  Feeling myself writing these doubts down and seeing the colored ink on the paper in my handwriting tends to snap me out of my doubt.  So does rereading my prayer journal(s).  It brings me back to the time and place when I wrote those things and I can feel the way I felt at that moment once again.

2.  How can I start trusting more?  Faith, trust, belief…. it all comes from Jesus.  Ask him for more faith, peace, trust.  You can get faith from him!

3.  How can I not doubt after I pray?  If you mean how can I believe that Jesus is going to answer my prayers, you should go back to the Bible and soak in his word.  He tends to answer through the Bible, so it’s a great place to turn to.  Once again, write out your prayers in a list.  Every. Single. Little. Prayer.  For like two days.  Then go back in every night for a week and see how God has answered your prayers!  Remember that his answer won’t always be yes, but he always answers.

I’m so glad to hear that you want to live for Jesus!  Remember that God looks at your heart, and your heart desires faith.  It’s okay that you don’t have this thing figured out yet.  I understand that it’s not easy, but you’re not alone.  Don’t worry about what your friends think, you’re just doing your best and trying to work through this!

For everything else I’ve written about doubt, go here :)

—Rachael :)